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INTROVERT ≠ PEMALU

Jangan Salah Paham tentang Introvert

Banyak orang salah sangka terhadap kami yang berkepribadian introvert. Mereka sering menganggap kami sebagai orang yang anti-sosial, pemalu, tidak pandai berkomunikasi, serta lamban dalam bertindak.


Anggapan itu keliru!


1. Kami Bukan Anti-Sosial

Kami mungkin tidak selalu bisa mengungkapkan perasaan dan pikiran secara langsung, bahkan kepada orang tua atau keluarga. Namun, itu bukan berarti kami tidak bisa berteman. Kami tetap bisa bergaul dan membangun hubungan sosial, hanya saja tidak semua orang akan langsung mengetahui isi pikiran kami.


Kami lebih terbuka kepada orang-orang tertentu—mereka yang memiliki cara berpikir serupa atau yang kami anggap bisa menghargai pendapat kami. Bahkan kami cenderung menjadi lebih cerewet ketika bersama teman yang kami anggap nyaman. Dalam pengalaman saya pribadi, saya justru lebih mudah terbuka kepada teman dibandingkan kepada ayah atau ibu.


Kami juga tidak keberatan berada di tengah keramaian, hanya saja, kami akan membutuh waktu untuk menyendiri untuk kembali mengisi energy kami setelah itu. Kami bukan orang yang tertutup, kami menikmati kesendirian.



2. Pemalu Tidak Sama dengan Introvert

Selain dianggap anti-sosial, introvert juga sering disalahartikan sebagai pribadi yang pemalu.

Ini kurang tepat.


Hariansyah (2007), dalam Supriyo (2008: 32), menyatakan bahwa rasa malu adalah perilaku yang terbentuk dari pengalaman atau kondisi tertentu.


Misalnya, seseorang yang pernah dipermalukan saat berbicara di depan umum mungkin akan merasa canggung dan takut mengulanginya di lain waktu. Namun, jika diberi kesempatan untuk berlatih dan mendapatkan pengalaman yang lebih baik, rasa malu itu bisa berkurang atau bahkan hilang. Rasa malu lebih seperti luka—bisa sembuh seiring waktu dengan perawatan yang tepat.


Sebaliknya, introversi lebih seperti preferensi bawaan. Seorang introvert bukan takut berbicara di depan orang banyak, tetapi lebih nyaman berbicara dalam lingkungan yang lebih kecil dan akrab. Ini bukan sesuatu yang bisa "disembuhkan" atau "dilatih" untuk dihilangkan, karena bukan kelemahan, melainkan bagian dari karakter. Saya sendiri sudah mencoba berbagai cara untuk menjadi lebih terbuka, tetapi tetap saja, saya merasa paling nyaman saat bisa menjadi diri sendiri—dan itu bukan masalah.

 


ENGLISH MATERIALS 2

A.      OBLIGATIONS AND NECESSITY

An Obligation is a course of action that someone is required to take, whether legal or moral. There are also obligations in other normative contexts, such as obligations of etiquette, social obligations, and possibly in terms of politics, where obligations are requirements which must be fulfilled. These are generally legal obligations, which can incur a penalty for non-fulfilment, although certain people are obliged to carry out certain actions for other reasons as well, whether as a tradition or for social reasons.
So Obligation is an Expression in English that is used to express a Liability or something we must do. And necessity is something we needv to do.

Some expressions  commonly used  to express obligations are as follows:
1)         I must try it again
2)         Do you have to go now ? yes, I do
3)         I have to keep it
4)         You have to come on time

Some examples of sentence necessity:

1)        I need to buy a cake for my birthday party
2)        Sunscreen is an absolute necessity for the beach
3)         Those shoes should be repaired.

From the above example we can compare the sentence of obligations and necessity. For obligation is usually followed by the word must, have to / has to ... (present), had to / has to ... (past tense). As for necessity use necessary words, need to, should, etc.

Note:
"The word" must "has a very strong meaning. The use of the word "must" has a meaning more inclined to a necessity that has become a duty to do. "
Some formulas for expression of obligations and necessity   

  
a.     Positive Obligations

           
  1.      S +must+verb
                        Example: I must save my money.

                  2.      S+have/has to+verb
                         Examples:You have to come on time.
                         He has to meet the manager at 7 a.m.

                  3.      S+need to+verb
                         Examples: I need to visit the landslide victims
                         He needs to look at the map.

b.      Negative Obligation.


        S+must not+ verb
         Example: You must not smoke here.

c.       No Obligation


         1      S+don’t have+verb
          Example: You don’t have to go to school because it’s a holiday.

         2.      S+don’t need to+verb
          Example: You don’t need to do it.

d.      Past Obligation


1.    S+had to+verb
                        Example: I had to take part in the meeting last night.



B.      SUGESTION AND ADVICE
Overview advice and suggestion look the same, but actually have differences although not so visible. Suggestions are usually given based on the results of considering short things and can be done by just thinking at a glance as soon as it happens. However, advice is made by considering not only what is happening now but also considering the past and the future. One also will not give advice to others in a hurry.
In addition there are still some comparison between suggestion and advice are as follows.
1. Advice is used in the meaning of 'advice'. While Suggestion is used in the sense of  'giving spontaneous ideas / feedback.
2. When giving Advice or general advice based on our experience and considering past, present and future situations. We should also really understand deeply about the people whom We counsel.

3. When someone gives Suggestion / advice to others, the other party has the freedom to follow it or not. This is because Suggestion / suggestion is just an idea / input. However, when someone gives Advice / advice to others, it is generally the recipient is expected to follow the advice because it is generally the person giving the advice. Of course we can still choose not to follow though this is not as free as Suggestion which we only interpret as a suggestion.




There are lots of different ways to give advice in English.
We are going to look at three:

Imperatives
    An imperative is a command or an order. To form an imperative, you use the bare infinitive form of the verb without a subject – it should be clear to the person you are speaking to that the imperative is about them.

For example:
- Wear warm clothes when you visit the UK.
- Don’t be afraid to talk to people.

Using modal verbs
    There are three useful words/phrases we use to give advice. These are called modals.
If you think something is a good idea, you can use the word: should
If you think something is a bad idea, you can use the word: shouldn’t
For example:
- You should eat fruit and vegetables every day to stay healthy.
- You shouldn’t eat too much spicy food.

Why don’t you. .
    Another way to give advice is to use the question form ‘why don’t you…?’ This is a nice way of making a suggestion – if you are not sure about the advice, you can use this form.
For example:
- Why don’t you take an English course before you go to the UK?
- Why don’t you give her a chocholate?

         There are several different structures that you can use when giving advice :

# Should
This is probably the most common of the structures for giving advice. After should, and its negative - shouldn't - we use the base form of the infinitive of the verb:

You should wise up
We shouldn’t cheat
It is common to use 'I think' and 'I don’t think' with should:
I think you should put the answers back
She doesn't think they should use them
 
# Had better
This structure is common in spoken English and it is usually used in the contracted form. After had better, and its negative - had better not, we use the base form of  the infinitive of the verb

-You'd better return the answers to the lecturer
-You'd better not tell anyone that you found them

# Ought
This is the most formal of the structures used for giving advice, and so it isn't so common.
After ought, and its negative - ought not (oughtn't), we use the full infinitive of the verb:

- You ought to contact the police
- You ought not to cheat in exams

# If I were you
This version of the second conditional is often used when giving advice, especially in spoken English. Note the use of were with I in the first clause.
In the second clause, we use would - contracted to d - and wouldn’t.

After would and wouldn’t, we use the base form of the infinitive of the verb:
·         If I were you, I’d give them back to the lecturer
·         If I were you, I wouldn’t use the answers
   


Well here is a way of asking and giving suggestion and also example:

Asking Suggestions:
Giving Suggestions:
- What do you recommend we do about .....?
 - What would you advice us to do?
 - Do you have any suggestions?
 - What would you do about...?
 - What do you think I should do?
 - What do you suggest?
 - Would you like to.....
 - Shall we go....
 - Let’s go...
 - How about going....
 - What about going....
- I would recommend that you ....
 - My advice would be to ...
 - May I suggest that we...
 - If I were you, I would....
 - I think you should....
 - Maybe you should...
 - Why don’t you...
Accepting Suggestions
Rejecting Suggestions
- I agree with that.
 - That sounds like a good idea.
 - Ok why don’t we do that.
 - That’s very interesting
- I’m sorry, I can’t agree with that.
 - I don’t think that’s good idea
 - I don’t think we should do that.
 - That’s very interesting, but....


C.      PERSUADING AND CONVINCING

The verbs ‘convince’ and ‘persuade’ are very similar in meaning, but there is a difference in how we use them. Persuading is expressions to make someone agree to do something, make someone do or believe something by giving them a good reason to do it or by talking to them and making them believe it. the act of influencing the mind by arguments  or reasons offered, with anything that moves the mind.


• Persuading
     Learn some expressions to show persuasions
    - If I were you, I would just stay at home
    - I think you ought to....
    - You’d better....
    - It might be a bad idea if ....
    - You should ....
    - My advice would be to ....
    - I would .... if I were in your position

• Convincing Others
    Learn some expressions to convince others.
    - I assure you, I can do the job well.
    - I convince you, I’m the right person to do the job.
    - I believe I am the only person who can finish this job on time.
    - I assure you, we can make it real
    - I convince you to do what I say.
    - I believe you should decide your own decision.
    - I ensure you to believe me.



   
After ‘persuade’ we use the structure
to + infinitive:
·      I persuaded them to stay for another drink.
·     He persuaded her not to take the job.

After ‘convince’ we cannot use a verb infinitive. 
We say ‘convince someone that‘:

    She convinced the police that she was telling the truth.
    He convinced her that it was the right thing to do.

Both of the above sentence would also be correct without ‘that’:
    She convinced the police she was telling the truth.
    He convinced her it was the right thing to do.


Dialogue of Persuading

Mark                : Anthony. What are you doing this evening? How about a movie?
Anthony          : Which one?
Mark                : There’s a good Indonesian movie at 21st theatre.
Anthony          : you know I don’t like Indonesian movies.
Mark                : Oh, Come on. I’ll sure you’ll enjoy this one.
Anthony          : I don’t enjoy Indonesian movies. I can’t follow the conversation fully.
Mark                : So what? We’re not Indonesian. Most of us are not able to follow the
               conversation fully. But there are so many other things you can enjoy.
Anthony          : That’s true.
Mark                : Then why don’t you come?
Anthony          : All right. I’ll be at the theatre at 7. Is that OK?
Mark                : Fine. See you at 7.
Anthony          : See you.

D.      PROCEDURAL TEXT

There are three common definitions of procedure text: (1) Texts that explain how something works or how to use instruction / operation manuals e.g. How to use the video, the computer, the tape recorder, the photocopier, the fax. (2) Texts that instruct how to do a particular activity e.g. Recipes, rules for games, science experiments, road safety rules. (3) Texts that deal with human behaviour eg how to live happily, how to succeed.
The purpose procedural text is to tell the reader how to do or make something. The information is presented in a logical sequence of events which is broken up into small sequenced steps. These texts are usually written in the present tense. The most common example of a procedural text is a recipe.

GENERIC STRUCTURE OF PROCEDURE TEXT
As well as the definition of the above procedure text, generic structure (general order) procedure text there are also three:
(1)       Goal (Purpose or purpose)
In this section, the author tries to explain what will be made or achieved through a series of steps that will be explained in the next paragraph so that the reader does not misunderstand what is being said.

(2)       Material Needed (Material / tools / materials needed)
After the reader knows something that will be made or achieved, then the author describes the material or materials that must be prepared or needed so that something can be achieved well. So make sure all materials or materials are complete before you start making them.
(3)       Methods or Steps (Methods / steps)
If the materials or materials needed are complete, then the author notify the steps to be done in coherent or sequential. So in this section the author should explain it in order.

There are three expression of describing process in procedural text. There are :
1.    Beginning (to start our procedural)
The example : The first is ... , To begin with… , To start with….
2.    Continuing (to connect each steps )
There are :  next, then, after that, the second is (number of steps), after this, etc.
3.    Ending (to finish the process)
Example : finally, lastly, to finish … .


How to Make Ice Cream
Materials:
2 cups milk or cream
2 tablespoons sugar
1 teaspoon Vanilla extract
Several cups of Ice
1 cup salt
You need these supplies to make ice cream
Tub or large coffee can to hold salt and ice
Glass bowl or small coffee can
Electric mixer or whisk
Ice cream scoop
Storage container for freezer

Steps:
First, setting up the cooling apparatus. Stir ice and salt in the larger container.
Then, combine the ingredients. Mix together the milk, sugar, and vanilla in the glass bowl. Then, set this bowl in the tub filled with ice and rock salt, making sure that the salt water does not spill into the bowl.
Next, mix the ice cream. Mix the ingredients in the small container vigorously. The salty ice mixture will cool the mixture down until it turns into ice cream. It should take about 10 to 15 minutes to stir the ice cream using either method. Stir until it is free from ice crystals and is the right consistency.
Last, storage and serving. ice cream is ready.


E.      ADVERTISEMENT

Advertisement is a text that aims to announce something to appeal to many people and for a product to be well-known in the general public as a means of communication with users of a product or service. Ads are paid for by people who send them and are meant to notify or influence the people who receive messages.
Based on the type of media used, ads can be classified as follows:
1. Print Ads
Print ads are types of ads that are published using print media such as newspapers, magazines, tabloids, and so on. Based on space used in newspaper media, magazines, tabloids, ads known in 2 forms: Classified Ads and Column Ads
2. Advertorial Ads
Advertorial ads are a type of advertisement that is packaged like news.
3. Display Ads
Viewed from form, display ads are bigger than column ads. In this ad, larger images and posts are displayed.
4. Electronic advertising
Electronic ads are advertisements that are published in electronic media. Electronic ads can be classified into: radio ads, television ads, internet advertising, corporate advertising, public service ads.
Advertisement ads have the following language characteristics:
a)    The choice of words used stands out the information being emphasized
b)    The choice of words used indicates the target
c)    The choice of words used is interesting, precise, logical, and polite.
d)    The choice of words used has suggestions for audiences.


EXAMPLE OF SHORT ADVERTISEMENT

F.       MEMO

The memo is a concise message, the message is written someone with a short, clear, and easy to understand. According to its use, there is an official nature memos and personal (not official). Memo is officially adopted as a statement in the official relationship of a leader to his subordinates. Be used as a personal memo memorandum or letter is not an official statement among friends, relatives, or others who have a close relationship.

The characteristics of the form of scrap Form of scrap consists of two parts:    
a)    Head Memo     
b)    Receiver     (To :  )
c)    Sender      (From :  )
d)    Subject and date of sender      
e)    Initials and name of the sender    
f)     Contents, the author immediately notice the message or command in the short and straightforward sentences.
Examples of memos on schools


To : Ali Zafran, S.Pd.
From : Muhammad Genta, M.Pd.      
Date : June 21st, 2013
Subject : Data of School Budget Plan

In the next three weeks, we will make a special meeting with the parents. The meeting will discuss the plan management for the school budget. We must give a correct understanding of the funds in details. It is a must because the funds come from parents which will be used for a school construction. I personally hope you can make the data in detail. Your data is based on the financial report for the last six months

Heao Master













G.      NOTICE
There are several notions of Notice namely;
• Information that notifies or warns about something that will happen
• A statement telling someone that the agreement, the job, etc., will be final
• Attention to a person or something

From some understanding above it can be concluded that Notice is a notice / warning in the form of writing / picture / sign to provide information, instructions or warning to the public. Notice is made to give instructions and give caution to be careful

Notice / caution according to its meaning is basically divided into two types:
1.    Notice in the form of directives or directions.
This notice can be a command line, solicitation, advice, direction or directions. Can also be a picture / sign / certain sign.

Then the meaning will be identical with can / may,  must / have to ,  should, allowed / permitted / let, suggested / recommended,  asked / hoped:  The examples are : Be silent. SLIPPERY ROAD, BE CAREFUL


2.    Prohibited notices.
This notice is a ban sentence, (No, Do not, Never), or in the form of a picture / sign / sign with a slash or crossing.  For example: Do not be noisy, No parking, never speak up.



⇀Summarized from various sources by i gede juni suartama